One thing that tends to happen to many people is that they stay comfortable in their life. Even worse, many people think that feeling uncomfortable is a BAD thing! Being uncomfortable because your car seat is hurting your low back is not a good thing. But I'm not talking about stuff like that. I'm talking about the actions you take in your life. For some people, asking for a raise is uncomfortable. Or going on a snorkeling trip. Or going up and asking someone out on a date is uncomfortable.